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i gotta say. some people on this website need to get laid. go get some dick or some pussy and then come back and tell me if ‘discourse’ is that important
let’s be honest. the times when i get into the stupidest arguments on this website? when i haven’t got dicked down in a few days. love yourself. get off this website and get some.
Anyway being trans is very fun and I’m proud of my identity and being able to accept an important part of myself
yes, because getting to pay thousands of dollars in shots, surgery, etc is just so fun, is it not? i’m not ashamed of being trans, it just isn’t fun.
nah but learning to love and accept myself and being a part of a vibrant and intricate culture is
if you dont have fun, whatever, thats none of my business but you don’t get to dictate how I feel about a core part of myself
i want you to be happy with yourself - i think that’s something that everyone should strive to do, since this is our only life. but when i say trans isn’t fun, i’m saying that the process of transitioning is not fun.
i never said you couldn’t love yourself. i said that this medical issue i’ve been presented with isn’t fun.
idk, i had a lot of fun flaunting around my new legal name and I feel super happy when people get my pronouns right. sure, it’s not a completely happy journey but there are a lot of positive aspects to being trans which i focus on as opposed to just wallowing in the negetives
and being trans is more than just a medical condition lmao what
of course there are things to be happy about. new names, new clothes, etc can be fun. but have you ever been beaten up, kicked out of your home, and called a failure by a parent because you were trans? i’m going to assume not, but correct me if i’m wrong.
furthermore, being trans is having gender dysphoria, which is a medical condition, and one i wish i didn’t have. if i could live as a girl and be happy, i’d do it. but i can’t, because i’m a man.
to me, it’s not fun, and never will be. it’s just a hurdle i need to jump over to be who i was supposed to.
I’m not trying to convince you then fine. And I mean, my personal life is none of your business and does not invalidate my opinion. If you’re curious, yes, I have experienced some of those things but not all (I happen to have a relatively supporting family). Just because I have a different and healthier view than you, doesn’t mean I haven’t been through shit. If you want to view being trans as suffering and nothing more, that’s fine and doesn’t involve me. You do you, even if it’s significantly unhealthy.
Gender dysphoria absolutely is a medical condition, but there is so much more to being trans than just gender dysphoria. Like, A) trans people without dysphoria exist and B) cis people can experience gender dysphoria. I’m not in the mood to debate you on this because truscum mostly end up misgendering me or calling me a trender just because of my beliefs.
Reducing being trans to just gender dysphoria is ignoring the vibrant and beautiful culture behind being trans and the pride behind being a part of the LGBT+ community.
You can view being trans however you want. You can wish you were cis or hate being trans with all your soul. I don’t care, but I’m allowed to have my own opinions and feelings based off of my own experience.
Anyway being trans is very fun and I’m proud of my identity and being able to accept an important part of myself
yes, because getting to pay thousands of dollars in shots, surgery, etc is just so fun, is it not? i’m not ashamed of being trans, it just isn’t fun.
nah but learning to love and accept myself and being a part of a vibrant and intricate culture is
if you dont have fun, whatever, thats none of my business but you don’t get to dictate how I feel about a core part of myself
i want you to be happy with yourself - i think that’s something that everyone should strive to do, since this is our only life. but when i say trans isn’t fun, i’m saying that the process of transitioning is not fun.
i never said you couldn’t love yourself. i said that this medical issue i’ve been presented with isn’t fun.
idk, i had a lot of fun flaunting around my new legal name and I feel super happy when people get my pronouns right. sure, it’s not a completely happy journey but there are a lot of positive aspects to being trans which i focus on as opposed to just wallowing in the negetives
and being trans is more than just a medical condition lmao what
So many people are so oblivious to how difficult and disheartening it is to be a non-binary person searching for spaces to discuss and celebrate their sexuality? If you aren’t masculine aligned or feminine aligned, sapphic and mlm communities arent the place for you. People act like non-binary people don’t need to be factored into their sexuality whatsoever even when they are attracted to them. Half the binary people who claim to be attracted to non-binary people are really just into hyper androgynous nbs. Terms like NBLW & NBLM are mocked, and such communities are minuscule. We are ridiculed if we decide to use terms like gay or lesbian but aren’t 100% binary, and are told we are appropriating those terms. The terms we come up with to describe ourselves are called MOAGI. If we don’t have a direct “same” gender to be attracted to we are called practically straight.
It can be so painful looking at how beautiful and prosperous WLW communities and MLM communities are and knowing that there’s nothing like those out there for you, or being alienated from WLW and MLM communities because you don’t fit a strict binary. I don’t even always feel comfortable in bisexual spaces due to how strongly people focus on binary genders in those spaces. Please respect nonbinary people’s sexuality, please don’t leave us behind in such discussions and communities.
This is fine to reblog, non-binary or not non-binary.
